Clarity

Finding Clarity when you don't have any idea HOW or WHERE to find it can be a daunting task. It feels like you're slipping and sliding in thick mud. It feels like you slide two steps backward for every one step forward. What to do? What to do? Don't despair. Just reach out for an ally to help you navigate the terrain of uncertainty and frustration.

This ally can take the form or relaxing and letting all thoughts leave your mind. Take a deep breath and bring forth one, and only one, problem that has been on your mind. What has been most bothersome that you cannot release it and it clouds your emotions? Go into a split within yourself, argue it out, brainstorm with yourself.

If the subject matter is your love life, categorize the pros and cons. If people around you, who care about you, have made comments about your chosen partner, replay the comments in your mind. Give yourself permission to not take remarks personally. Think outside yourself and view yourself as others view you and your situation. Most of all be honest with yourself. The clarity will come through.

There are many examples I could give you, such as, "Why don't I feel accepted in this world?" or "Why is everything going wrong in my life?". The answer is simple. You do have the answers, just let the emotional side of you shut down. Use only logic and again, look at yourself and your situation as someone else would.

Another ally is to allow another person, who you are close to, and who you trust, and talk things out. Listen to them without prejudice, without trying to defend yourself. Clarity will come.

Make sure you treat yourself kindly and with self-love. Pamper yourself because you are worth it. Most of all relax and let the good things in your life come through.